An Excerpt from The Stations of Solitude by Alice Koller
Philosopher Alice Koller explains the benefits that ensue from
solitude and the creativity that is birthed there. Here is an excerpt on
nurturing.
"I surround myself with silence. The silence is within me, permeates
my house, reaches beyond the surfaces of the outer walls and into the
bordering woods. It is one silence, continuous from within me outward in
all directions: above, beneath, forward, rearward, sideward. In the
silence I listen, I watch, I sense, I attend, I observe. I require this
silence. I search it out. The finely drawn treble song of a
white-throated sparrow is part of it. Invasions of it by the noise of
engines are torments to me.
"This is my solitude.
"I do not cloak it among other persons, and I know how it appears. No
sign of submission, in the eyes of most men; too assured, in the view
of most women; not properly respectful, to the gaze of all those in
authority. I have become that third gender: a human person, the being
one creates of oneself. I fell in love with my work, became fiercely
protective of my freedom, started to make new rules. In this, Sartre is
surely right: persons are not born but made. The choice lies escapably
within ourselves: we may let it wither away, or we may take it and run."